Friday, July 21, 2017

July 20, 2017   Another long delay in posting - had a blog all ready and then accidentally erased it - rats!  So let me catch up....

Last Friday we went with Wilma and JC to the Watson cemetery near Deep Creek outside of Bryson City.  We were able to almost drive right to it, but the GPS let us down at the very end, and showed the cemetery on the wrong side of the road.  With a little help from a friendly park ranger, we were able to go right to it.  We were happily surprised to see it had been cleaned up, brushed out, and many of the graves were decorated.  Not sure who did it, but it was nice to see the graves are still being cared for.  It is important for the families to assert their right to maintain their heritage and make sure these old cemeteries don't just grow over and get forgotten.  While there, we counted 18 unlabeled graves for babies in the center of the cemetery, and many more that were marked for infants and young children.  It was a touching reminder of how hard life was in the 1800's for the families that made their living in these mountains.  We were able to find Granny Beck's parents and her grandmother on the Watson side, but Wilma says no one has been able to locate her grandfather's grave.  Hmmm - that might be a good research project this fall with Susan G.







After the cemetery visit Wilma and JC treated us to lunch in Bryson City and tried to visit the Swain County Historical Society, but their office closed at noon.  We will have to again next week - I want to buy the Swain County Heritage book, that has information on Becks, Watsons, Conners, Wiggins and other branches of the family.  Wilma shared a lot of genealogy information on the Becks and Watsons and it will be good to get that all documented in our family tree.  It is so fun to reminisce and talk about all the old stories.  Wilma was so fortunate to have a wonderful relationship with both Granny and Grandpa, and has wonderful memories.  Then a quick trip back to Franklin, and Wilma had to get ready for her 50th class reunion!

On Saturday, we had a leisurely morning and then decided to try and find Grandpa and Granny's old house.  We drove out the 64 By-pass, and just kept trying side roads.  Finally looked up the Cartoogechaye Baptist Church and found it - I knew if we found the church, I could find the house.  So up the Old Murphy Road - the road over the mountain to Chatanooga - until we hit Sudderth Road, a quick trip down that road and around the corner, and there was the house.  The house was sold recently - the husband of the couple that owned it last time we were here had passeed away recently, and his widow sold the property.  It was occupied, so we didn't bother the new owners, but snapped a couple quick pictures of the house and old barn.  The house looks very different but I could still see the old bones of the house.  The man that owned the house previously had started restoration on the barn when we were here last, but never got past that point.  It is in sad shape and I wouldn't be surprised if it was gone on our next visit.  Many fond memories of time spent with Grandpa and playing in the barn!


While trying the side roads, we happened upon the most wonderful little Episcopal church tucked away in the woods - St. John's Cartoogechaye.  It is a beautiful old wooden church, nestled in the trees, and so welcoming.  We were pleasantly surprised to find the door to the sanctuary unlocked, so we went in to say a quick prayer.  We were greeted by two old neighbor dogs who are the "unofficial greeters" - anytime there are people there, the dogs are there too.  There is a beautiful church yard there as well, with many old graves, a lot of them dating back into the 1800's.  We decided to go back for the Sunday morning service, which was wonderful.  It was our first Episcopal service since leaving Hoquiam - nice to hear and participate in the familiar liturgy and communion - although we have been to church with Casey twice.






Saturday night saw us back at the motor home for a quiet evening.

Met up with Wilma and JC again on Sunday after church - went to Clayton for a very nice lunch at "Fishies" - good food, good conversation, lots of laughter and stories.  The toured us around to see their property on the river (a wonderful spot!) and Colby's house.  Got to meet him and the neighbor's turkey stopped by to say hello while we were there!  Back to Franklin, and had dinner with Aunt Ruth and Dennis and Debbie Ray (Aunt Ruth's son and daughter-in-law).   It was good to catch up with them - we keep asking them when they are coming out our way!  Dennis works long, long hours, and so does Debbie.  Looking forward to sharing our side of the world with them soon.  And the same goes for Wilma and JC.  And by the way, we do do other things besides eat, although it's hard to tell from this story!

Monday morning we started getting ready to depart on Tuesday.  Got the motor home cleaned out, went  to see Aunt Ruth again.  Had lunch (yes, eating again!), and then took a wreath out to Dad's grave at the cemetery in Franklin.  Took supplies to clean up the headstones - Aunt Ruth reached down to clear some dried grass from Dad's headstone and hollered "SNAKE" - scared me to death! We had a little metal stand for the wreath, so Mike took that and pulled the grass back - we're pretty sure it was just a harmless garter snake, but decided to leave it in peace and just work around it!  Funny that it was at Dad's headstone - he HATED snakes!  Got all the graves cleaned up (Grandma and Grandpa Beck, Dad, Ralph Ray (Aunt Ruth's first husband) and John Corey (her 2nd husband), and then took her over for a nice visit with Aunt Mildred.  We love them both so much - we are all so sad we aren't closer geographically so we could spend more time together.  Wilma came by while we were there, so more visiting and reminiscing.  Then took Aunt Ruth home, sat and visited a bit more, and then off to do some laundry.






Then out to Wilma and JC's for more food!  JC had a big pitcher of margaritas ready, so I became the designated driver.  He fixed a wonderful meal of fresh rainbow trout - they were delicious.  More great conversation, and then Wilma and I teamed up to beat the pants off the guys at Sequence (a really fun board game we are all hooked on). Sat on the porch and visited some more, then headed back with Mike as the co-pilot (JC makes a mean margarita). Got back to the park about 1 AM!!



Up on Tuesday morning and packed up.  Headed out from the RV park about 11:30, bound for Cherokee.  Got to the national park campground at Smokemont and got all settled in.  Did a quick tour around the area (back to Cherokee to catch up on email and text messages) and settled in for the night after a long walk through the campground (it is really big!).

Wednesday morning we were up and headed into Cherokee to touch base with Scott and Daniel Sipe about setting up a video conference for Thursday. Also got caught up on email and text messages - the campground is in a deep valley with NO cell service.  It is on the Bradley Fork of the Oconaluftee River - my great-grandmother was Alice Examine Bradley and her family lived in the area.  The campground is just up the road from the Beck church (officially the Lufty (or Smokemont) .Baptist Church), and not too far up the road from the old Beck homestead of my great-grandfather (Jacob Henry Beck - he married Alice Bradley).  The Beck cemetery is right by the homestead on Beck's Branch (aka creek) , just below Beck's Bald (mountain).  Lots of family history to explore and appreciate.  As we were leaving that morning and driving by the Beck Church, someone there was ringing the church bell - what an amazing feeling.  I could just feel my grandparents and great-grandparents, with Uncle Merritt and Dad in tow, heading up the path to the church.  It is very plain, and I can guarantee NO ONE would fall asleep on the pews inside- they are NOT comfortable.   But wonderful workmanship, and it has stood for over 100 years!  Jacob Henry's father was a founding member of the church in the 1830's. Baxter really enjoyed drinking from the pipe pouring water out of a spring by the church - a very common occurrence in this area, and sweet, swseet water!  Look closely at the last picture to see the church as you see it through the woods while walking up.




On our way into Cherokee we stopped by the Mingus Mill - where the settlers ground their corn and wheat.  Dad and Uncle Merrit used to go there when they were little.  It is still in working order, and run by the park service as a demonstration project during the summer months.  Of course, we had to stock up on cornmeal and sorghum molasses - yum!



Stopped by the visitor's center at Oconaluftee and walked a short part of the river trail - Baxter appreciated the cool shade and a nice drink from the river there.  While we were there, the elk herd decided to make an appearance near the visitor's center.  There was an instant traffic jam, as the tourists just stopped in the road and got out to take pictures.  The elk were totally unconcerned by all the commotion, and even laid down within  30 yards of the road to take a nap!  They were really reddish in color and a lot smaller than ours.  There were quite a few bulls in the herd right now. They are making a pretty dramatic comeback, after being re-introduced in the early 2000's with stock from Manitoba (the most genetically close to the ones that were here).

On the way back to the motor home, stopped by the Beck's Branch and looked around to make sure we could find both cemeteries there (the "Old" Beck cemetery and the "New" Beck cemetery.  Located where Till Beck's house stood - the bushes that stood around the house are still there.  While we were there two hikers came off the Bradley Loop trail so we chatted with them a bit.  They advised this has been a bad year for snakes - they saw THREE of them today!  We are wearing boots and long pants when we go to the cemeteries on Friday!  Then back to the Beck church for pictures and a video, accompanied by the ringing church bell.  The bell has a beautiful sound, and I'm sure it could be heard for a long distance, ringing through the "hollers" and calling all of the families to worship.

Thursday morning we had fried cornmeal mush for breakfast - delicious, and extra special as it was made with cornmeal from the Mingus Mill!  Then off to Bryson City to purchase a Swain County Heritage book from the Swain County Historical Society.  Also purchased a book on Swain County cemeteries - was pleased to see the Beck cemetery at Smokemont was the first one listed!  Then back to Cherokee, where we connected with Scott and Daniel Sipe.

We are so humbled and touched to have been presented today with the Joel Wolfe award for community service by the Grays Harbor United Way.  Normally this is a surprise award that is not announced until their annual meeting, but since we weren't going to be anywhere close to Grays Harbor, they swore us to secrecy and told us in advance.  Scott and Daniel came through, as usual, and connected us "live" with their annual meeting via video-conferencing -- we could see and hear them, and they could see and hear us!  So we were "live", even though we weren't there.  A huge "thank you" to Scott and Daniel, to Betsy Seidel and Chief Jeff Myers for the nomination, and to Kelley and the United Way board for this great honor!!!

After the award ceremony, we drove up the Great Smoky Mountain Parkway towards Tennessee, and up to Clingman's Dome.  It is the highest point in Tennessee and has amazing views of the Great Smoky's.  We weren't able to walk up to the observation tower (no dogs allowed and we had Baxter with us), so we will hopefully go back on Saturday sans Baxter and walk up to the observation tower.  One of the signs we saw told us that air pollution has dramatically cut visibility in the mountains - previously, you could see 100 miles in all directions from Clingman's Dome.  Now, on all-too-frequent occasions, visibility is cut to just 20 miles!

Mike has a friend from the service who lives in North Carolina and is only about an hour away at a family event, so we are hopefuly he will be able to make it over to Smokemont on Saturday and share Clingman's Dome with us and spend the night.  Will be good to catch up!

Scoped out locations for the other families in our new book, and that's our plan for tomorrow.  Turns out the Bradley cemetery is located right here by the campground!

Off to bed.  It has been cool at night (down in the mid-60's) as we are in the mountains, which has been very nice.  Days are still warm, but not terribly hot (mid-80's).

Mike and Glennis

Things we have learned:
  • Snakes show up in the darndest places, and surprise the heck out of you!
  • I STILL HATE SNAKES!
  • There are wonders to be discovered around every turn of the road - adventure awaits those who strike off to see what's around the next corner
  • We LOVE our family - when we are together it's like we were never apart
  • Recognition for helping others is a humbling experience!
  • The number of generations who have settled this part of the country is truly inspiring
  • Great Smoky Mountain elk are SIGNIFICANTLY smaller than our Olympic Elk
  • According to Mike, it's a good thing Wilma and I are on opposite sides of the country - he's not sure the world is ready for the two of us together all the time!  And he can't even imagine what it would be like with all the Beck girls together!
  • We need to have a Beck Girls Reunion with east and west coast cousins!



Tuesday, July 18, 2017

July 13, 2017.   Wilma picked us up and took us to Franklin to conduct a little business this morning.  Toured around, visited the cemetery (Grandma, Grandpa, Dad, Uncle John, JD & Jimmy Dills) - will go back later with a wreath and do a little clean up.  Great conversation, memories and funny stories. Visited Cullasaja Gorge near Highlands, North Carolina this afternoon via the Mountain Waters Scenic Byway.  A VERY narrow and winding road, but very pretty scenery.  Highlands is a resort town in the mountains near Franklin and a fun place to visit.   Walked behind a waterfall at Dry Falls - link to a video is https://youtu.be/MxDtC52ugQw.  Sure was refreshing to have the mist falling on us - Baxter really enjoyed the cool, moist air.  Water flow was a little less thank in the video, but still a lot of fun.






Saw lots of wild rhodies on the drive up - there is a certain species that blooms in July in the higher elevations.  They made huge thickets in the woods.  

Shared a wonderful brie/bacon/fig jam/apple panini at the Mountain Fresh Grocery in Highlands, and then shared a cup of key lime gelatto (we're officially old so we can do that!).  Twisty, windy drive back to Franklin and the motor home, and a quiet evening.  

Headed out for Smokemont tomorrow with cousin Wilma and her husband JC, to locate the Watson and Conner cemeteries.  Also found a listing for a Husky cemetery (not the dogs, but related family Husky) and will try to find that as well.  Will be a fun day.

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

July 12, 2017.  Hello all - sorry for the long break, but we were having too much fun at the Tolle House!  Fireworks and dinner were lots of fun on the 4th.

Baxter is so funny - he has gotten to where he doesn't even want to leave the air conditioned house.  He just stands there and looks at you if you try to get him to come outside.  Can't blame him, though - it has been in the mid-90's with 80% or more humidity!

Faith and Hannah took us to a nice spot on the Catawba River at the old Langford Canal.  It was built in the 1700's to detour around a bunch of rocks and rapids in the river.  Much of the travel in the south during that time was done by rivers, as there was no real road system.  We walked along the canal and were in awe of the stone work done by Irish immigrants that is still rock solid (pun intended).  Also saw a unique feature - irises that grow in the river and have a really pretty white bloom.  They require moving water, rocks and a sandy bottom to grow, and only occur in that area.  We missed the season for heavy blooming, but were able to see a few still in bloom.  Saw lots of little turtles sunning themselves on logs.  Also saw a snake (small) with a little catfish in it's mouth, wrestling around in the water.  Yuk!  Had a very nice day with the girls.





Did more kayaking with Casey after church last Sunday at a nice lake.  The water is very "muddy" and you can't see what is in it - which is probably a good thing!   Happy to report there were no snake sightings but we had a great time.   Are seriously considering acquiring a couple kayaks to throw on top of the Jeep - a nice, peaceful way to see things you wouldn't see otherwise.



Saw a beautiful sunset from the front porch at the house - sky was amazing.  Watched a video, had Mexican shrimp salad (thought of you, Diana!) and enjoyed each other's company.  Lots of thunder and lightning storms in the afternoons, but they help break the humidity a little bit.


Enjoyed the swimming pool - we will definitely be putting one in when we get to Colville!  However, didn't like the FIRE ANTS!   They are everywhere, even getting into the pool.  If you stand still for more than a few seconds, they are on you and biting.


Found the Sequence game at Target (thanks, Gallanger's, for the introduction to this fun game) and taught Casey to play - he promptly beat the pants off of us!

Mike taught Faith how to drive a "stick" - manual transmission in the Jeep.   I think they put about 25 miles on it going up and down their long driveway!  She did really well, and we are all happy she knows how to drive a manual if she ever needs to.   We will catch up with Hannah and teach her as well when we are back in September.  We got up early and had the motor home and Jeep all washed up and ready to hit the road - they had to wash the Jeep again when they got done.

On the road to Franklin by 11:00 on Tuesday.  Hard to leave them, but further adventure is calling!  We felt so bad that Sabrina had been so impacted by her fall and resulting complications - she was not able to join in in the activities but we tried to spend quality time with her when we could.  We watched "Me Before You" the other night - a good girly chick-flick!   Had a good "sister" time with her.

Leisurely drive to Franklin - took the long way around through Charlotte and Asheville, as the roads were much better.   Saw beautiful flowers along the way at freeway interchanges - they were planted with day lillies in bright yellow or orange, or with sunflowers.  Very pretty!  We have been surprised at the lack of RV's on the road for this time of year - saw very few.



Crossed the Eastern Continental Divide on US 26 hear Hendersonville, NC.  Elevation was only 2,130 feet!

Arrived in Franklin about 5:30 - beautiful RV park!  Very nice host, and the grounds are manicured and shady.






Wilma and JC came and picked us up and treated us to dinner at a wonderful Mexican restaurant.  Good conversation, lots of laughs and memories.   We are going to go and find the Watson cemetery later in the week - I didn't know about that one.  Anxious to get pictures of headstones and learn more about that side of the family.  

Lazy morning this morning and enjoying the pretty park.  Will catch up with everyone this afternoon.

Mike and Glennis

Things we have learned:

  • Fire ants are nasty!
  • We are NOT cut out for the heat and humidity in the south
  • Baxter LOVES air conditioning
  • Don't teach Casey how to play new games
  • We have driven 4, 2017 miles so far
  • We still like each other!

Tuesday, July 4, 2017

July 4, 2017.   Happy Birthday, America!  Still in South Carolina, still hot and muggy, but having a great time.   Took Baxter to the vet yesterday to get heart worm treatment pills - it is very prevalent here.   He does not have heart worm, but wanted to get the pills for him.   After a "negative" test, we were good to go with pills in hand.  Baxter attracted a blog follower at the vet's office - they had never seen a Black Russian Terrier, and he made quite a stir.  Also stocked up on dog food - he eats a 35 pound bag each month!

Then back to the house, and Mike and Casey constructed the "mother of all mailbox posts" at the end of the driveway.  Good job, numbers are clearly marked (after this picture was taken), and it's high enough for Casey to get the mail while still in his work truck.   Not sure how the poor mail carrier is going to reach that high, though - will wait and see if they get any mail tomorrow, or just a nasty note!


Chicken enchiladas and fresh corn salad for dinner (Faith had been asking for them), then watched Patriot's Day - good movie about the Boston Marathon bombings.  

Up this morning for Swedish pancakes and strawberries for breakfast.  Saw a snapping turtle crossing the driveway as we left the motor home this morning - it was a big one.  Didn't let Baxter get too close - it was not afraid and not happy to be bothered.  Mike took a picture with my phone, but forgot to save it, so no photographic evidence.

We are going to a favorite spot of Casey and Sabrina's for dinner (the City Tavern in Waxhaw, North Carolina - I told you they have strange place names here!) for prime rib special, and then headed to watch fireworks.

Wishing you all a joyful and safe 4th!

Mike and Glennis

Things we have learned:


  • Baxter is SO smart - he quickly learned the house is air-conditioned, and doesn't want to be anywhere else!
  • We finally broke the "wake up at 6 AM" setting in our brains, and can actually sleep in a little bit now.
  • Snapping turtles are NOT friendly and not afraid of you - watch out for the business end.  And they can move very fast when they want to.

Sunday, July 2, 2017

Saturday, July 1st.   Well, here we are in Lancaster, South Carolina at Mike's brother's house.   Muggy and hot, just like I remember the south in the summer time.   But no worry - we have lots of "sweet tea", Corona and lime, and a nice swimming pool!

So let me catch you up quickly:

Headed out of Red Bay late afternoon on Thursday, June 29th.   Service on the coach was all done by mid afternoon on  Wednesday, then we just kicked back and relaxed, did some laundry, polished the bugs off the front of the coach, and toured around Red Bay a little bit.   Went to the Coon Dog Cemetery about 15 miles outside Red Bay - a fun, funky place.  Only registered coon dogs can be buried there - have to have permission from a board of directors.  It's obvious these people LOVED their coon dogs!   Then we drove out further to check out the Rattlesnake Saloon - one of the top 5 "strange places to eat" on the Food Network channel!  It's built in a natural cave down in a ravine (or "holler", as they're called in the south).  You get picked up by the "Saloon Taxi" (a 4x4 pickup with seats welded into the bed) and down this steep gravel path you go, bouncing and holding on for your life.  Had a fun meal, but didn't get really great pictures due to poor lighting.   We "borrowed" some from a website - Just Google "rattlesnake saloon, Alabama" for pictures that do it justice.  It was closed on Wednesday, but we did go back Thursday on our way east and had lunch.  A great adventure!




We also did the Tiffin factory tour and the paint shop self-tour on Thursday morning.  We are so happy we bought their wonderful product!  The factory was amazing - they finish 12 coaches a day, and every one of them is pre-sold to a dealer before it is started.  It takes about 15 days from start to finish to construct one of the bigger diesel coaches.  Everything is computerized and you can even come and watch your coach being built if you order one.  The employees were so nice and answered all our questions - the workmanship was very impressive.  Tiffin builds almost all their own components so they have absolute quality control.   The "line" is on a schedule and they can tell within a 15-minute period exactly where a particular coach is.  Every coach  has a six-digit ID # and every part on the coach is marked with that number, even the wiring! There are over 2 1/2 MILES of wiring in one of the coaches.  One of the pictures below shows them assembling all of the wires for a wiring harness.  The paint shop was also amazing - 12 paint bays that will hold up to a 45' coach, and again, an assembly line process.  We still can't figure out how they do all the swirls and paint, even though we stood there and watched it!





The service techs and people at the Tiffin service center were also amazing - so helpful and accommodating, and took care of every little detail we asked about.  They have 42 service bays! We were in #32.  Many of the people there with their coaches told us they make the trek on a regular basis for service and "tweaks".  Of course, they live a lot closer than 3,000 miles, like us!


Headed out from Rattlesnake Saloon about 4:00 on Thursday.  Drove to just east of Birmingham and dove into another Walmart RV Park spot about 8:30.  Quick dinner and to bed.

Up and on the road by 7:30 on Friday, eastbound!  Ran the interstate (I-20) to make better time, so easy driving.  However, outright downpours quite a bit of the time.  The rain was so heavy you couldn't see 50 yards in front of you!  Tried to get a picture but it was hard to capture.  It was like driving in heavy fog in our area. Everything was pretty and green, much like at home, but we have no idea what the names are for any of the vegetation. Happy reunion at the Tolle house, steaks and veggies on the grill, good conversation and to bed.  Sabrina was, sadly, really hurting - she took a bad, bad fall in the Walmart parking lot and it really aggravated her fibromyalgia, so she was in bed.  Hopefully she is feeling better this morning.   We slept in on Saturday, and enjoyed a lazy morning.
Change of plans for the afternoon - headed out to Case Lake and went kayaking with Casey and Hannah (she is living with them for her final year of school).   Had a blast - saw turtles, lots of birds, and no encounters with SNAKES!  There are also no alligators in this part of South Carolina.


Off to church on Sunday morning and brunch at Cracker Barrel.  Stocked up on groceries, and back home - salmon dinner tonight!

Things we learned:

  • Drivers in the south DO NOT know how to merge onto freeways.   Casey says it is not unusual to see a driver stopped at the "yield" sign at the bottom of the on-ramp, patiently waiting for no traffic! 
  • Southerners LOVE their cemeteries.   Everyone we saw was beautifully maintained, all of the graves were decorated.
  • When it rains, it pours here.   We have rain at home, but this is like a tropical monsoon!
  • We are not the only part of the country with place names you can't pronounce - and most of them are based on Indian names as well.
  • Gas is much cheaper here - last tank we paid $1.87/gallon!
  • Fire ants are NOT fun - they are everywhere, and as soon as you stand still they have you! 
  • Thank you, Casey, for telling me the only snake you have seen on your property was where our motorhome is parked!  (It was, however, a black snake (non-poisonous) that he accidentally ran over with the lawn mower) so I feel a little safer.  I HATE SNAKES!
Mike and Glennis